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“So Seamless” – Choosing to Birth at Home

February 8, 2013
Photo Credit: Nicole Heidbrederwww.gracefulfusion.com

Photo Credit: Nicole Heidbreder
www.gracefulfusion.com

We opened this year’s season of Healthy Birth Workshops with a full room of first and second time parents-to-be, gathered to learn more about home birth. While some were already planning to give birth at home, many more were there with questions, wondering whether home birth might be the right option for them. We were honored to be joined by four new moms who shared their birth stories and home birth midwife Kimm Sun, CNM who answered questions and shared her expertise with our expectant parents.

Since 2004, the number of home births nationwide has risen by almost a third, to just under 1% of all births in America. Research shows that women choose home birth for a variety of reasons. For some a close, trusting relationship with their midwife is a big draw. Home birth midwives often provide especially personalized care, with at least some prenatal visits taking place in your own home. Lying back on your own couch while listening to your baby’s heartbeat can be a magical experience. Other major factors include the desire to avoid unnecessary interventions and to be fully involved in decision making during labor.

When Natalie, the first speaker, was pregnant with her first baby, she and her husband decided to give birth at a freestanding birth center. At six months pregnant, however, Natalie experienced preterm labor, and was on bed rest for the rest of her pregnancy. Reflecting on her experience in the hospital, she realized how unsupported and afraid she had felt: “I felt really invisible that night.” As time passed, she began to realize how much she craved an intimate labor and birth, in which she and her wishes were honored. As she noted, “some of the things that come up during birth are really, really personal.” She was thrilled when she made it to full term and gave birth at home with her chosen midwife.

For her second baby, the decision to have another home birth “felt so natural.” She and her husband carefully prepared their home for birth, choosing candles and music to support the ambience they wanted. When her Braxton Hicks contractions started to feel different one night, she realized this was it. Her labor moved quickly – her contractions going from 10 to 4 minutes apart in the space of just 10 minutes.  However, she says, she felt calm and safe. “It was so seamless the way my doula and midwife came and honored the space that we had created in our home and the way that my husband was supporting me.”

An hour after her midwife’s arrival, Natalie gave birth on her hands and knees. Her midwife passed her new son between Natalie’s legs and placed him gently on the floor in front of her. It was their chance to meet their baby. “That stillness and that silence were so profound”, says Natalie. With no hospital staff rushing around and no distractions, “we were able to just really get lost in him and wrap him up in our attention. It was such a gift.”

Photo Credit: Sarah Tewhttp://www.sarahtewphotography.com

Photo Credit: Sarah Tew
http://www.sarahtewphotography.com

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